January 20, 2019

Epiphany: Bless


So far in our Epiphany series about the disciplines of the Way of Love, we have found that Learning is more than just discovering an answer. Our instructions on how we Go out into the world are part of our baptismal call as beloved members of God’s family.

This week we consider the idea of what it means to Bless. Interestingly the word Bless comes from the Old English words blēdsian, blētsian. The root of these is blōd: ‘blood’. How can the word ‘bless’ be related to ‘blood’? Miriam Webster suggests that it comes from the use of blood in consecration as referenced in Leviticus 8. “So Moses took some of the anointing oil and some of the blood which was on the altar and sprinkled it on Aaron, on his garments, on his sons, and on the garments of his sons with him; and he consecrated Aaron, his garments, and his sons, and the garments of his sons with him.” Of course, the use of blood in sacrifice and worship is found throughout ancient history, including at the Cross.

In Paul’s letter to the Ephesians, he reminds that church that their Blessings is found in, “the blood of Christ. For he is our peace; in his flesh he has made both [Jews and Gentiles] into one and has broken down the dividing wall, that is, the hostility between us.” (Ephesians 2:13-14)

Current usage of the word Bless has lost that original connection with blood and sacrifice. We now say that we Bless someone by asking for God to ‘look favorably on’ them, or to praise God, or to give thanks. The word may also be used in a more lighthearted way when we say, “Bless her little heart” or “bless my soul”. We might comment that someone was a Blessing or that we were able to Bless someone by giving money or helping out.

The Gospel for this Sunday in the Revised Common Lectionary tells of a blessing that came to a young couple. We hear that “there was a wedding in Cana of Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. Jesus and his disciples had also been invited to the wedding.” Then social catastrophe: “the wine gave out.” This was a great embarrassment. and “the mother of Jesus said to him, ‘They have no wine.’ And Jesus said to her, ‘Woman, what concern is that to you and to me? My hour has not yet come.’

Despite her son’s response, “His mother said to the servants, "Do whatever he tells you." (This mosaic at the National Shrine of St. John Paul II by Fr. Marko Rupnik shows all the players at The wedding at Cana).

We learn that “there were six stone water jars for the Jewish rites of purification, each holding twenty or thirty gallons. Jesus said to them, ‘Fill the jars with water.’ And they filled them up to the brim. He said to them, ‘Now draw some out, and take it to the chief steward.’ So they took it.”

The servants must have been a little concerned as they watched the steward taste the wine. After all they knew that it was only water in the jars. They must have breathed a sigh of amazement and relief when “the steward called the bridegroom and said to him, ‘Everyone serves the good wine first, and then the inferior wine after the guests have become drunk. But you have kept the good wine until now.’ Jesus did this, the first of his signs, in Cana of Galilee, and revealed his glory; and his disciples believed in him.” (John 2:1-11)

I wonder whether I would have been as quick to obey the request of a wedding guest. The first request wasn’t so out of the ordinary, the second one was very strange. These servants did what they were told.

We too may feel that we are asked to do something that is unusual for and by God. We are often tempted to think we must have all the proper things before we try something new in a ministry, or in life. In the Life for Leaders blog post on January 14, Roy Goble asks, “Have you ever achieved 100 percent of what you attempted as a leader? Your failure to do that doesn’t mean you should attempt less however—it means you should attempt more!” He notes, “Most leadership begins as inspiration…If you’re not aiming too high—both at work and as a disciple—you might be missing out.”

Goble points to the story of David and Goliath to make his point. David used the simple slingshot and rock to kill the giant. His faith-filled action Blessed the army of Israel with victory.

Using the simple ingredient of water, Jesus blessed the newly married couple at Cana. The gathering was blessed with the ‘best wine’. Jordan Ware notes in the January 17 d365 meditation, “This text says that it wasn’t just any water that he turned into wine, but water used for Jewish cleansing rituals before offering prayers and sacrifices. The wine that was offered, then, was not just for celebration, but for preparing the people to worship God. God’s abundance prepares our hearts for worship, and makes us ready to offer sacrifices, confident that through this abundance, we will never go thirsty.” We could also say, “God’s abundance prepares our hearts for worship, and makes us ready to BLESS, confident that through God’s Blessing, we will never go thirsty.” 

In his ministry, Jesus called unlikely disciples (fishermen) and used everyday things to Bless those in need. God continues to ask us to Bless our world using the things we have on hand. God invites us to use our talents, our time, our hearts to Bless each other and to break “down the dividing wall, that is, the hostility between us.”

What ordinary thing in your life does God want to use to Bless those around you?

Has God asked you to do something that seems, on the surface, to not make sense?

What water jars are you being asked to fill so that the new wine can Bless others?