October 19, 2025

David and Bathsheba: Still Beloved

 Last week we looked at the story of David and his flawed response to lust and family life. There is another side to David, just like with each of us. There is the faith-filled, faith-full side that we see in the Psalms, in his rejoicing when the ark is returned to Jerusalem (2 Samuel 6) and in his desire to build a temple for God. (2 Samuel 7)

David, said to be a man after God's heart, offered vulnerable prayers like, Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting. (Psalm 139:23–24). He was believed that God knew him deeply and that despite being imperfect, believed that God was still with him.

How often do we let our guilty conscious keep us from accepting God’s love? We let the ‘shame’ messages in our past and present influence our response to the hand of God held out in love. We think, ‘I have to get it all together before I go to church or pray.’ That is simply not what the Bible teaches. The Bible, over and over, says God loves us no matter what we do or don’t do.

A few verses to help you remember how beloved you are: Paul reminds the Romans: God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:8) and a few chapters later proclaims, I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8:38-39)

The great promise found in the Gospel of John: For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. (John 3:16)

The Psalmist reminds us to Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good. His love endures forever. (Psalm 136:1)

To the Israelites Isaiah shares God’s promise, When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze (Isaiah 43:2) and Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed. (Isaiah 54:10)

Jeremiah comforts the Israelites in exile with the reminder, The Lord appeared to us in the past, saying: ‘I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.' (Jeremiah 31:3)

Paul tells the Corinthians that despite an unspecified difficulty, God told him, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. (2 Corinthians 12:9)

Because we are, indeed, the Beloved daughters and sons of God, just like David and Bathsheba we can lean into God’s love. This is a daily (and perhaps moment by moment) action. Because we are human and fallible, it’s never a one-time thing to say, “I know I am Beloved and I’ll live in a loving fashion.” The temptations and stresses of life can cause us to slip. Like David, we can then repent and know that God’s love never fails.

Find and post a favorite affirmation from the Bible to remind you that you are truly a beloved child of God and NOTHING can change that. Above is one of mine.