We are in Ordinary Time in the church year with no major feasts. It’s also the heat of summer and that can make us feel like we don’t have any energy. Day follows day in a similar pattern. Ordinary time—day in and day out, the same things happen. It can be rather numbing.
I wonder if that’s how Leah felt. After all, she was not the
pretty younger sister. She was the responsible, older sister with ‘lovely
eyes.’ She worked to keep her brother Laban’s household running smoothly. Then
as the wife of Jacob, she did the same. Day after day she did what was expected
of her as the older sister, the one in charge, and the one who could take care
of any problem.
Being the ‘responsible one’ can be quite a heavy load. You
don’t want to disappoint anyone so you keep trudging forward ‘doing your duty’
day after day. The routine can blur our sight, so we don’t see God. Yet, God is
there whether we take time to notice or not. What can Leah’s daily life tell us
about where God shows up in our own daily lives as we live up to expectations
of all kinds? And how that might be different than we expect?
Expectations are something we all have. We have expectations
of ourselves. Expectations of God. Expectations of our family and friends. We
also try to meet the expectations of our employers, children, friends, etc. All
those expectations can pile up pretty high, as they did for Leah. She had
Jacob, her sons, the rest of the tribal group, and her own self-expectations. Think
about your own expectations and how you try to measure up.
How do we release some of those expectations? Jesus invites
us to be yoked with him. He says Take my yoke upon you and learn from me,
for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
We are to share the burden with Jesus just as two oxen share the load of a plow
or wagon. What can be too much for one animal, can easily be pulled by two. In
the same way, the work that feels too heavy by ourselves can be shared with God
and with others. Jesus promises rest for your souls when we don’t try to
do everything alone. Just like Naomi learned last week, it is the community
that upholds us in the hard times of life.
The Pulpit Commentary notes Jesus is inviting us. The Commentary says, “there
is work to be done, therefore enter on it. The yoke is the service that Christ
gives us to do [and] that Christ speaks of it as though almost identical with
his yoke.” We each have gifts to use in the daily work and it goes better when
God is part of the work.
How many of us are willing to pick up a straw, or piece of trash, or open a door for the love of God? I have to admit I don’t really think of those things as being actions that show God’s love. However, when you stop and think about it…anything that makes life better for someone else is the hand of God.
If we take seriously being yoked, and co-workers, with Christ then truly anything we do that moves the Kingdom of Beloved Community forward is God’s work and God is present.