July 14, 2013

Our Betrothal Feast with the Holy Bridegroom

Now we come to the image that got me started down this meditation path-the Betrothal Feast, or as we normally call it, the Eucharist, Holy Communion, the Last Supper…

Back on Maundy Thursday, the day in the church calendar when we remember Jesus’ final meal with his disciples, I was struck by the idea that what we are really celebrating is a Marriage Feast. Of course the real Marriage Supper of the Lamb will be in the final resurrection as outlined in Revelation, but each time we celebrate a Communion service, we get a foretaste of that Banquet.
In the words of the service we are invited to remember what happened that night 2000 years ago. I esp. like the wording from the Episcopal Book of Common Prayer, Eucharistic Prayer D:

When the hour had come for him to be glorified by you, his heavenly Father, having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end; at supper with them he took bread, and when he had given thanks to you, he broke it, and gave it to his disciples, and said, "Take, eat: This is my Body, which is given for you. Do this for the remembrance of me."
After supper he took the cup of wine; and when he had given thanks, he gave it to them, and said, "Drink this, all of you: This is my Blood of the new Covenant, which is shed for you and for many for the forgiveness of sins. Whenever you drink it, do this for the remembrance of me."

Father, we now celebrate this memorial of our redemption. Recalling Christ's death and his descent among the dead, proclaiming his resurrection and ascension to your right hand, awaiting his coming in glory; and offering to you, from the gifts you have given us, this bread and this cup, we praise you and we bless you.
Lord, we pray that in your goodness and mercy your Holy  Spirit may descend upon us, and upon these gifts, sanctifying them and showing them to be holy gifts for your holy people, the bread of life and the cup of salvation, the Body and Blood of your Son Jesus Christ. Grant that all who share this bread and cup may become one body and one spirit, a living sacrifice in Christ, to the praise of your Name.

An ancient form, “The Teaching of the Twelve Apostles,” that I ran across (on Facebook of all places) gives these instructions: Celebrate the Eucharist as follows: Say over the cup: “we give you thanks, Father, for the holy vine of David, your servant, which you made known to us through Jesus your servant. To you be glory for ever.”

Over the broken bread say: “we give you thanks, Father, for the life and the knowledge which you have revealed to us through Jesus your servant. To you be glory for ever. As this broken bread scattered on the mountains was gathered and became one, so too, may your Church be gathered together from the ends of the earth into your kingdom. For glory and power are yours through Jesus Christ for ever.”
When you finish the meal, offer thanks in this manner: “We thank you, holy Father, for your name which you enshrined in our hearts. We thank you for the knowledge and faith and immortality which you revealed to us through your servant Jesus. To you be glory for ever. Almighty ruler, you created all things for the sake of your name; you gave men food and drink to enjoy so that they might give you thanks. Now you have favored us through Jesus your servant with spiritual food and drink as well as with eternal life. Above all we thank you because you are mighty. To you be glory for ever.

“Remember, Lord, your Church and deliver her from all evil. Perfect her in your love; and, once she has been sanctified, gather her together from the four winds into the kingdom which you have prepared for her. For power and glory are yours for ever. May grace come and this world pass away! Hosanna to the God of David. If anyone is holy, let him come. If anyone is not, let him repent. Maranatha. Amen.”
There are also some warnings in this old version: “Do not let anyone eat or drink of your Eucharist except those who have been baptized in the name of the Lord. For the statement of the Lord applies here also: Do not give to dogs what is holy. On the Lord’s day, when you have been gathered together, break bread and celebrate the Eucharist. But first confess your sins so that your offering may be pure. If anyone has a quarrel with his neighbor, that person should not join you until he has been reconciled. Your sacrifice must not be defiled. In this regard, the Lord has said: In every place and time offer me a pure sacrifice. I am a great king, says the Lord, and my name is great among the nations.”

In all current forms of the Communion prayer we are commanded to do this in “remembrance of [Christ]”. In the Jewish culture remember has a deeper connotation than just thinking back on an experience. Instead, like in the Passover, the actual historical event is brought present each time the ceremony is enacted. In the same way, we are present with Christ and the 12 each time we come to Communion. We are present with the saints and sinners throughout the ages who have shared the Supper in many times and places. We are sharing the Bread and Wine with St. Paul and St. Francis, with Constantine and with a humble peasant. We are sharing the Body of Christ with martyrs and with persecutors, with slave and free men (and women). We are in the great cloud of witnesses throughout the ages as we hold the Bread in our hands, whether it is a wafer or a piece of a loaf of bread. We are in the company of great and small at the Banqueting table when we consume the Blood of Christ, be it as wine or grape juice, from a chalice or in a cup. It doesn’t matter if we are worshipping with a thousand or a few, the Holy Bridegroom is in our midst and we are part of the Holy Banquet stretching from Jerusalem to the present.
I think that is pretty amazing. If you really think about it; it can leave you rather breathless and in awe. Thanks be to God who “loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end” and gave us the way of remembering, of coming together to not just reenact but to make alive in our day and time the Betrothal Feast.  

Over the next couple of weeks, we’ll look at the Holy Bridegroom’s work of redeeming the Bride.